Dont Be a Hater !

ImageI want to tell a story about my night last night and how the events are affect me. Often we do not realize the impact of negative talk around us. We even may be the cause of defeat in peoples creative lives because of our negativity. When people do this to each other they are haters. People who simply want to affect others because they are not brave enough to truly stand up and show others who they are. Last night I had an experience with someone just like this.

 

Yesterday, I decided to go and hang out with a couple of my friends and this man who I do not remember his name; however, decided to tell me that I should not sing because I am bad at it. I have always loved to sing and although I am not going to be the next American Idol winner it does make me happy. I woke up this morning still thinking about this haters mean comment. Just one comment from another person and I have doubts about doing something that makes me happy and smile. This proves just how powerful the words of those around us can be.

 

Personally, this proved to me just how important it is to tell people how wonderful they are at the things they love and encourage rather than hate and put people down. These negative actions are a leading cause in why people are unhappy today. There efficacy is low regarding things they want to do. Therefore, we never do what we want because others think were terrible at it.

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ARE YOUR RIDGID BELIEFS HOLDING YOU BACK?

Many of us see our morals we are taught as children, accept the tangible world that is created by the parents and structures around us, we have a strict concept of right and wrong. I question all authority and wonder why we do not simply try to understand happiness and hold ourselves back from what we truly want. a lot of this time our sense of right and wrong, obligation, lack of creating is what holds us back from the happiness. I have said many times that we are constantly being held back by the beliefs of other people as well. We have been told over and over what we can and can not do well by others around us. Then, we become what they tell us over time. I want everyone to begin to create their own lives based on what they want and have always wanted. Learn to question the authority of those around them. So, how can we do this? Three ways, we place ourselves around like minded people, learn empathy and unconditional love and understanding, and finally we learn to control our thoughts and beliefs. 


First of all, Everyone around us is here to help us along and the supportive people you need are there in your life but are they the people you spend your life with. For example, I have a friend who I truly love because he has an idea and we make it happen when we are together. The reason is we are creative energy because of the freedom. This is a platonic relationship that i ran in to by attracting like minded people. Now, I can easily not spend my focus on this friendship which is new and continue to be around the egotistical friends who have goals that will never satisfy them. This is my will and choice ( and of course sometimes I do) to be with who I want. Find the people who have the closest perspective on life as you do. These people are here to help you and begin to create and believe in yourself. 


Next, Learning to understand and feel everyone’s thoughts and feelings as a wholeness and oneness. This is true energy and what most of us would consider Christ consciousness. I always say my ability to feel what others do leads me to forgive and love all people no matter what they have done. I have always known compassion and can step in to others shoes. for most of us this is something we need to learn. It is compassion that leads us to make the correct choices and not hurt the people who will always be held back, cant seem to find true happiness in their lives, and believe the material possessions will be all there is and yet they cant create anything helpful to achieve the possessions they covet. Compassion and Empathy lead us to true understanding of ourselves and others. This is what lets us discover what it is like to be the starving artist and understand their creativity, it is what lets us understand the child born in to a third world country and we may create an organization that saves them, or finding our compassion around the earth and we become people who want peace overall or environmental clean up. The wider our compassion and understanding reaches the more creative we become and the more we are driven to act upon it. This is what brings us true success!


Lastly, We need to understand the majority of people are going to be living life by popular media and controlled culture. This will lead them to tell you that you cant accomplish what you dream of or want. the more you hear this the more you believe it. start reprogramming your beliefs by telling yourself you can do it. Remember everything around us starts as inspired thought and action. Simply think it and move towards it. tell yourself you will and can the entire way and do not listen to the Haters. If they do not believe let them hold themselves back in life not you. 


To end my rant today, I want to leave you with the thought of whether or not you simply accept what you are told and limit yourself to the world other people create or you go out and make a reality that is both rewarding, loving and amazing. Now is the best time to begin to change the limits you have for yourself and to Make the future better for everyone. Go live the life you want.

 

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What is Christ Consciousness?

This is a question I am asked often? I personally do not like the term because it makes the term Christ Consciousness seem only available to Christians but this is not the case. Christ consciousness is our ability  to become a full and spiritually whole person. Spirit is everything around us and connects every object, person and animal on earth through one conscious energy stream.This spirit is what makes us all act as one, create and love. the ascension in to Christ consciousness is becoming aware of the spirit and feel for everything around us. This includes the empathy and love for everyone you meet and come in to contact with.

 

 OK so if Christ consciousness is not limited to only Christians then why do we call it Christ consciousness. It is simple, because Jesus when on earth achieved this enlightened state of living. He displayed unbelievable love and compassion for all life. No matter what you believe you have to agree that this is a beautiful thought. Therefore; it is simple studying the actions and feelings of Jesus are so much more valuable than the words that we misconstrue in to some religion that can change upon one mans ego or needs at any given moment. If we follow his compassion, trust, and need to create, teach, save, help, etc… His love of all people and appreciation is what we were suppose to learn not the words which are open to interpretation.  

 

 

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Random Scribbbles about what I really want

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My entire life I was told everyone has a purpose and a reason for being here on earth. That there is a reason for everything however, I have a gut instinct that i need to do more and It has to be grand and big. I want to help the masses. Speak and give knowledge and purpose to so many. I have decided that everything I create, write, and do from here on out half of the profits will go towards helping others… I will donate half to someone in need or an organization. I want all people to be, Think and love more. I want people to see others and start to help other people like they help themselves and The best way I can think of is to continue to speak up against others who feel it does not matter and to help others to make there dreams come true and start to speak up as well. There is nothing we are not capable of and I want everyone to find true creative potential and experience everything they want in life. I want all people to find compassion, loyalty and trust in others. This means we need to start to think and act differently against what we are taught as children in school. I want to start to encourage peoples passions rather than teaching all children to memorize useless facts. I want to take an approach to education where students learn to write and communicate through their passions and we begin to look within ourselves for our worth rather than how we compare to everyone around us. I never want anyone to compare there strengths to others rather than help others and start to work together to make things more beautiful and more creative. I want to solve problems together through feelings rather than logical thought. I want people to believe again. I don’t care what they believe as long as we believe something. Today we are moving closer and closer to believing nothing. This is a sad boring and controlled world. I want choice, passion, and love!

 

 

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My Great Wish

 

The question is posed to me all the time about why some people are not normal and capable of simply not caring wondering or wanting more knowledge in their life. From what I am aware of some people choose to love rather than think and be logical. they are led by their heart and spirit. Most people today are led by their heads. In my opinion being led by the head is a negative aspect. It leads to selfishness, worldliness, ego, and violence. This is the pain I feel all the time. Although, I realize I am different, Like most others I am often affected negatively from it and I make the wish often that I was normal and had that male dominant brain. I pose the question to people is it better to be powerful and self satisfying than compassionate and selfless. I have made the promise to never take anything the world gives me without giving back to someone who needs it. I have decided that half of anything I make will go to charity and bettering the world. This includes half of the book I am writing. So many people need more and are never helped. I can not look the other way anymore. I challenge others to begin to help as well. Create a movement of compassion and start to teach others and help others!

 

 

 

 

 

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Why Study Empathy?

 

 

Fewer and Fewer people today are capable of understanding and feeling others emotions. This creates a serious lack of compassion for the people and world around us. Compassion is the key to everything we search for in life. Compassion is love for everyone, compassion is spirituality and enlightenment for our soul. Compassion leads us to help others, compassion leads to selflessness and Christ consciousness in which we all need to find happiness in our life. The blessed people who naturally feel what others feel and think but the people who ignore it become far more logical, sensible, and act selfishly with their ego and forget about the needs of others. they begin to do things based on their own wants and needs. Learning to empathize with others heals and humbles us as people. This is a great first and yet sometimes painful step in true spirituality in our world.


How to introduce Empathy back in to your life can be difficult when we are constantly bombarded with hurtful and painful situations in the world today. The first step is truly developing the heart and practice putting yourself in others shoes. Instead of acting on what is best for yourself see yourself as the other person and realize we are all one in the same. try to share their pain only for a moment and think to yourself what would I want if this pain was completely mine. 

 

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