Are We Tested?

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We are all familiar with what is the most well known story of God testing mankind. In this story God asks Abraham to make a sacrifice of his son in Gods name. Abraham at that point took his son to the the top of the mountain and prepared to sacrifice him. That is when God stopped him right before it happened. Although, today we don’t make sacrifices in Gods name are we tested like Abraham was. I Believe we are and I believe before God answers our prayers we need to prove our love for him the same way Abraham was.

When we pray for something using The Law of Attraction and/ or God / The source of everything we need to prove ourselves to god before our prayers our answered. This is done through trust and love that we will gain the answers from god and that we cant accomplish our goal or need without the source. For example, I personally was asked to walk away from someone before being brought to my soul mate. I had to sacrifice the entire life I was accustomed to and move in a foreign direction and trust in the destination. I personally have been tested each time my life was about to change for the better or a prayer would be directly answered.

When trying to change your life you need to understand that we need to trust in the destination and understand that their is sometimes a price that needs to be paid for the greater good. Fear of giving up what is asked of you and moving in a different direction holds you back. Next, time you feel stressed or something randomly pops in to you life pay attention to the solutions and choices placed ahead of you and find the divine guidance and move ahead with complete trust and joy!

 

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New Project… Book The Persuit of Christ Consciousness

I wanted to inform everyone of some of my new projects I currently have going on…

 

About 3 months ago I started writing about Christ Consciousness and how this is the true way to gain happiness in your life. I have finished the book itself and am editing it currently. I have decided that half of all the proceeds will be donated and the book will be at an affordable price. This is also why i will only be publishing as an e book. It is about helping others and sharing beliefs. I wanted to keep everyone updated. It will go on sale in august and will cover everything you spiritually need to attract what you want in life. If you have been studying the law of attraction and are not getting anywhere this is for you because it goes in detail simple steps you need to start to truly build your life. I will be including a copy of all blogs with the short e book and am extremely thrilled with the rough result so far. This is also why I will be taking a break from blogging so I can finish The e book up in the next couple of weeks. If you have been following me and would like a copy i will send the link out before it is finished where you can buy it  and I will let you know where the donations are going to… Please share my update… Love you all 

 

 

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Soul Mates and How to Recognize Yours

When we think of the concept of a soul mate it is mostly black or white to people. we all stand on one side or the other. I wish I could offer some most conclusive answers for everyone. I have had many people in my life that seemed as if they could have been my soul mate. I was attracted to them immediately, Love at first sight, almost as if I have known them my entire life and I have loved with all my heart and no conditions. Still nothing has lasted and I was always drawn to move on. This may seem like a negative and sad story but; Lately things have turned around so much in the love field for me and I completely understand why I went through all of the relationships up until now. I believe before we meet the right person our soul mates if we are not ready, have not gained the knowledge, compassion, and empathy we need to be whole with in ourselves we will never be able to have a fulfilling relationship with our soul mates and we lose them or hurt them.

The next question regarding Soul mates is how do you recognize your soul mate and this is difficult because we often feel something with people immediately like a pull and assume we are meant to be with that person. This is not always the case. In many cases this is just a sexual attraction we feel as a “kidney Pull” the area in the body where the sexual energy is often released. Then, our natural empathic abilities will feel another attraction and mistake this for recognition. Sexual energy is one of the strongest energies we can transmit and even people who have a low empathetic range can pick up on this receiving of energy. Sexual energy that is passed this way can be manipulative and controlling even if we are not aware that we are doing it. This is because we can often convince someone that they are right for us through this amazing rush of giving sexual energy. The way we do this is by consistently thinking of a person in a sexual way. This is a great sharing of energy if you already feel compassion and love but if not its simply unfair. As an empath I am aware of this feeling of a” kidney pull”and the difference between past life recognition with someone. I understand now that it is not the feeling that you need to recognize your soul mate but the recognition of values with in someone. If you do not share the same values and principals this person and yourself with have many troubles ahead. A soul mate will resonate on the same energy and want the same core things. Like my need for compassion, affection, and loyalty that I gain with Ryan. However these core needs will be different for all people its about finding the person who wants and gives you exactly what you need to be true to yourself and happy. Next, God will often drop you a hint if you pay attention to the energy around you.For example, love has always been extremely important to me. I love easily and frequently and i can remember dreaming of Ryan before he came in to my life.

Yet, i had never met him so I dismissed these few dreams each time until I finally had the moment where I realized I was living the dream. If you pay attention to the signs you will be driven in the direction of your soul mate at the right time and away from those who are wrong for you. Finally, your soul mate will mirror your energy. Now if you were born like me and you can see it then its a bit easier but for others it can be difficult. The soul mate will run on the same frequency as you and will have the same energy about them. please do not mistake this for being really similar. You can actually be opposite with all your likes and dislikes but not your overall personality. For example, Ryan is completely a mans man he likes to hunt, fish, and is always in his own head and I am relaxed easy going, trusting, and I love pink and singing, dancing and am artistic. We like different things but we are very similar in how we handle each other, the people around us and the way we love. I trust him because he is like me in many ways that just can not be seen.

 

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In the Service of Others

As humans we are in constant search of happiness. Many people are filling this need with objects like our cars, phones, houses,electronics and other people. Then, in order to support our addiction of possessions that we think will fulfill the need to be happy we grow up get jobs that will make us enough to money to pay for the car, house, phones, etc… Yet, even if we have a job that allows us to gain all the “best” things in life we are still reaching for the next thing and never gaining the fulfillment. This was the struggle I found myself in not to long ago. I was working a job that would simply allow me to get by and gain possessions. It took zero creativity and I felt so under utilized. In other words I was wasting my time and instead of creating what i wanted, looking inwards, and trying to make a change I was going through the motions and placing my attention outside rather than inwards. I was so unhappy! I felt as if I was trapped in a constant whirl wind and One day I had to escape my work environment and start making a difference. I always wanted to help others in some way, to truly create change, I wanted to be free… I now believe this urge is the same for all individuals. The same urge to be at the service of others… to touch others hearts and to be free to create a better world. Some may do this with singing, drawing and writing and some may be health care workers, or firefighters… etc… Yet, all people need to find what service to humanity will make their spirit sing for joy! If you are going through the motions be brave and trust in your ability, look with in and move towards a higher purpose 🙂 In the service of others you find true moments of happiness

Appreciation of Coincidences

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Coincidence is defined as chance happening: something that happens by chance in a surprising or remarkable way. This is the definition we are all taught to accept in life. It is not uncommon to hear people use this term to push away the idea that they are being given some divine guidance in a specific direction, a sign, or perhaps a gift. In life nothing happens by chance! It is the coincidences in life that show us which path to go on, help our intuition and law of attraction make our lives better each and every day. It is all of our job to watch and listen for coincidences in our life. its the moment where you say this is strange? hmmmm… These are always guidance and help. Next time a coincidence arises in your life do not ignore it instead ask yourself what is the message? These coincidences may be matched by a person or experience that will help you understand the meaning. For example, I was thinking about writing a book and prayed on it. I was also considering other options in my life at the time and was not sure how i should express my ideas. Then, I went to church with my father that weekend and they spoke of god telling a prophet to write down everything that happens. Now, if you are anything like me this is most likely not enough of a sign. I often consider myself like Gideon after I am given a sign I always need one more sign. So, I began writing but I was not sure this would help me get where I wanted. So, I had a moment where I was literally told to Donate half. At the time I assumed it meant profits from my book. Now, I was driven towards a place where It is far more relevant and I am moving closer and closer to my goal and Path without any idea of how I was going to get there. Please share coincidences in your life with me and any interesting divine guidance you have?

 

 

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Letting go of Judgement

Judgement is something as people we can not seem to escape as people. All of our lives we have been taught to judge everyone and everything around us. Society has a guideline of beliefs we accept and hold each other accountable for. Then, we judge ourselves and others when they do not hold true to these guidelines. I personally know this struggle very well. It is my wish that I can completely let go of Judgement and yet, each and every day I fall back in to the belief system that was placed in front of me at birth and constantly programmed in to my mind by the community around me. So how do we begin to let go of judgement of ourselves and others? The only way is to reprogram our beliefs and become open to the oneness of god and study that Christ Consciousness’ principal.

First, The reason we are constantly accepting the judgements placed around us by society is because of the constant need for attention. For example, when we are children our parents begin early training us to believe we need to act and feel certain things. If we live the way they tell us and accept the social norms we are rewarded with attention and if we are not we are punished and rejected. We have this constant reward and punishment going on at all times. We even punish ourselves constantly by remembering the mistakes in life we make. Instead we need to decide to let go and forgive ourselves.

Next, The understanding that god is everything and everyone. We are one with everyone and everything around us. The understanding of this leads to the letting go of judgement and the compassion, understanding and openness to all ideas leads from this one concept. We are all just simply meant to give readily the love and energy we have instead of having false beliefs. Instead believe everything because all beliefs are true to that person.

Also, each and every day be I am and what we truly are. We need to take the risk and be who you are instead of what others expect of you. some of societies judgements you will want and love because they will make you happy and benefit who you will become in life. However; there will be others that will not and these are things you need to just let go and accept that some members of society will attempt to punish you by rejecting you for it. Accept this notion and let go of it. For example, I love the idea of marriage in life but I can not accept being told what to learn or do in school. I feel the need to rebel because I feel like I want to learn what I want. This is a struggle we all feel in live every day and we need to accept rejection and let go so we can be our belief.

Lastly and most important, Learn to accept others completely for who they are and what they want. we are all an expression of energy we will all want different things and have judgements placed on us based on how we grew up and were raised. It will be ok for one to do something and another may feel it is wrong. I say just accept all things of others and find the people who accept the beliefs you have and let others be who they want.

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Where are you getting your Energy from?

 

 

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The concept of Control Dramas first appeared when we saw the popularity of the Celestine Prophecy. This Book written by James Redfield brings up the concept of energy sharing between individuals. Everything in the universe is made up of energy and we all have our own field of energy. This energy can be positive or negative, fun, loving, etc… These fields change based on our emotions and we can control the energy around us based on our thoughts. Yet, we all need a source of energy to replace the energy we lose. The most enlightened of people will gain the source of energy from within themselves and the universe; however, most of us are taught to gain it from others through Control Dramas. There are 4 control dramas and each of us tend to fit in to one category as a main way of gaining energy from others.

 

4 Types of Control Dramas- 

 

1. Intimidator– This is the aggressive personality. the person who demands attention, respect, and authority. These people tend to gain energy from others through physical gestures, glares, yelling, etc…

 

2. Poor Me– This is the counterpart of the Intimidator and these people tend to be a by- product of having an intimidator in their life. These are the people who gain energy and attention through pity of others. They want people to constantly empathize with them. 

 

3. Interrogator– The interrogator is the person who tries to retrieve personal information by constant questioning. These people tend to need to know things like where someone is all the time, where people are going, saying, doing, and are constantly asking questions assuming that something is going on?

 

4. Aloof– The Aloof personality is in turn the counterpart of the interrogator. This control drama is the person who seems to take a back seat, never caring and is always indifferent to everything. This person makes people interrogate because of true lack of caring. Although, not controlling is important being aloof is more similar to neglect.

 

Our entire lives we have a constant depletion of energy from control dramas. These are small or large, in fact it seems almost impossible not to manipulate or control in some way using control dramas. For example, a teenager needs to drive a friend to the airport. This person says I will bring you if you pay for gas. This is an intimidator. Demanding of something for something else, and then the friend might say oh but I have no money for gas and then they become the Poor me. This is a very small example but they happen on various scales each day. So how can we Break these control dramas?

 

1. let go of Competition– Instead of competing with others cooperate. This may mean doing things without need for anything in order to readily give. Instead do not expect anything from anyone just give readily.

2. Fear– Let go of fear and imposing it on other people. Fear is a useless emotion which has no positive outcome. being fearful of a negative outcome in your life will only result in exactly what you think. If you find yourself in a control drama with another then let go, walk away and find someone who will help you and wants to cooperate.Release all fear!

3. Action vs. Reaction– Do not react to people and what they say. This is the hardest of all in my opinion because we all have the need to defend ourselves is someone is taking our energy. Instead just know yourself and who you are. no one should and can affect who you are as a person and your belief is yourself.  Action on the other hand is moving towards what you are drawn to do and will help you and others around you without depleting energy. It will be easy and feel good. The best example of this is when Jesus said Turn the other cheek!

Therefore, In order to manage control dramas all you need to do is begin to manage your own energy. These things can be done by finding peace with in yourself. This is through letting go and centering yourself. There are many ways to do this different breathing techniques, having high self worth, meditation, etc…. It is really your journey and your choice.

 

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