Are you Ignoring the Signs?

Each of us I led through life with guidance in a higher form… We receive Answers and directions each day and many of us ignore them or brush them off. Have you ever simply worried about something and not understood why. You thought it was irrational or ridiculous and then you find out that exactly what you were worrying about happens.

 

Well this happens to most people and in reality if we did not disregard these feelings but confront them or trust them we would avert a lot of troubles each and every day. For example, Have you ever been n a relationship that you just knew the person was up to something and you say to yourself no I am being crazy…. Then 6 months later you find out you were right and you are mad and upset with the fact that you wasted your time. Well what if these were your signs and guidance trying to direct you away from this person. We need to learn to let go of the things we worry about and do exactly what our feeling and gut tells us. ** this doesn’t mean start acting on every feeling and being overly emotional** but it does mean using discernment and moving away from the things that are not bringing us closer to happiness, compassion, and freedom. below are a few ways to start recognizing signs when they come so you can begin o work with the source rather than working against it…

 

1. keep a journal– this will allow you to look back at your feelings which is the most common way we receive signs. if something feels wrong or bad then there is something wrong. Do not try and rationalize it like there is something wrong with you. There is nothing wrong with you except your not on the right path and need to reflect on your choices.

 

2. Pray for Clear Signs and Guidance- asking for signs and guidance on what to do helps you to recognize what may already be there or it may give you a clear sign on what to do. My friend Julie for example prayed about someone in her life that she cared a lot about that was making unhealthy choices an she had provided hem with a lot of help and support but was continually getting hurt. she received a sign to move on and stop what she was doing. Not once but Twice!!!

 

3. Give up on Fear– stop fearing things you may lose like, friends, jobs, etc… sometimes sacrifices and letting go are necessary for the overall happiness and good. we may not see this at the time but it always the case. if we hold on to things we never have room to bring the new things in that will help us. Clear out the old and make room for the new….

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Pay It Forward… Thank You!

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If you had read my post yesterday you know what I was coming in to today at work… I had been praying the majority of the ride in for courage and for all to work out! Sometimes we need to see the little signs around us and appreciate all there is. Well, I pulled in to Dunking donuts this morning because like so many New Englander’s I Run on Dunkin’ LOL! I ordered my Iced coffee through the drive through ” Hazelnut Iced Regular Please” and I often choose to not wait in the drive through but this morning I did for some reason. I was still doing my morning routine of praying in my head the whole time and as I got up to the window the cashier said “Your All Set” at first I looked Bewildered, thinking to myself what do you mean all set. The lovely young girl through the window said the lady in front of you wanted to pay for your coffee. I knew I had no idea who the woman was because I was not in my home town and I do not believe things happen on coincidence. Thank you for the sign and Thank you to the lady in front of me who just wanted to do something nice today! It meant way more than you even Know!

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Are We Tested?

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We are all familiar with what is the most well known story of God testing mankind. In this story God asks Abraham to make a sacrifice of his son in Gods name. Abraham at that point took his son to the the top of the mountain and prepared to sacrifice him. That is when God stopped him right before it happened. Although, today we don’t make sacrifices in Gods name are we tested like Abraham was. I Believe we are and I believe before God answers our prayers we need to prove our love for him the same way Abraham was.

When we pray for something using The Law of Attraction and/ or God / The source of everything we need to prove ourselves to god before our prayers our answered. This is done through trust and love that we will gain the answers from god and that we cant accomplish our goal or need without the source. For example, I personally was asked to walk away from someone before being brought to my soul mate. I had to sacrifice the entire life I was accustomed to and move in a foreign direction and trust in the destination. I personally have been tested each time my life was about to change for the better or a prayer would be directly answered.

When trying to change your life you need to understand that we need to trust in the destination and understand that their is sometimes a price that needs to be paid for the greater good. Fear of giving up what is asked of you and moving in a different direction holds you back. Next, time you feel stressed or something randomly pops in to you life pay attention to the solutions and choices placed ahead of you and find the divine guidance and move ahead with complete trust and joy!

 

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Appreciation of Coincidences

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Coincidence is defined as chance happening: something that happens by chance in a surprising or remarkable way. This is the definition we are all taught to accept in life. It is not uncommon to hear people use this term to push away the idea that they are being given some divine guidance in a specific direction, a sign, or perhaps a gift. In life nothing happens by chance! It is the coincidences in life that show us which path to go on, help our intuition and law of attraction make our lives better each and every day. It is all of our job to watch and listen for coincidences in our life. its the moment where you say this is strange? hmmmm… These are always guidance and help. Next time a coincidence arises in your life do not ignore it instead ask yourself what is the message? These coincidences may be matched by a person or experience that will help you understand the meaning. For example, I was thinking about writing a book and prayed on it. I was also considering other options in my life at the time and was not sure how i should express my ideas. Then, I went to church with my father that weekend and they spoke of god telling a prophet to write down everything that happens. Now, if you are anything like me this is most likely not enough of a sign. I often consider myself like Gideon after I am given a sign I always need one more sign. So, I began writing but I was not sure this would help me get where I wanted. So, I had a moment where I was literally told to Donate half. At the time I assumed it meant profits from my book. Now, I was driven towards a place where It is far more relevant and I am moving closer and closer to my goal and Path without any idea of how I was going to get there. Please share coincidences in your life with me and any interesting divine guidance you have?

 

 

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Letting go of Judgement

Judgement is something as people we can not seem to escape as people. All of our lives we have been taught to judge everyone and everything around us. Society has a guideline of beliefs we accept and hold each other accountable for. Then, we judge ourselves and others when they do not hold true to these guidelines. I personally know this struggle very well. It is my wish that I can completely let go of Judgement and yet, each and every day I fall back in to the belief system that was placed in front of me at birth and constantly programmed in to my mind by the community around me. So how do we begin to let go of judgement of ourselves and others? The only way is to reprogram our beliefs and become open to the oneness of god and study that Christ Consciousness’ principal.

First, The reason we are constantly accepting the judgements placed around us by society is because of the constant need for attention. For example, when we are children our parents begin early training us to believe we need to act and feel certain things. If we live the way they tell us and accept the social norms we are rewarded with attention and if we are not we are punished and rejected. We have this constant reward and punishment going on at all times. We even punish ourselves constantly by remembering the mistakes in life we make. Instead we need to decide to let go and forgive ourselves.

Next, The understanding that god is everything and everyone. We are one with everyone and everything around us. The understanding of this leads to the letting go of judgement and the compassion, understanding and openness to all ideas leads from this one concept. We are all just simply meant to give readily the love and energy we have instead of having false beliefs. Instead believe everything because all beliefs are true to that person.

Also, each and every day be I am and what we truly are. We need to take the risk and be who you are instead of what others expect of you. some of societies judgements you will want and love because they will make you happy and benefit who you will become in life. However; there will be others that will not and these are things you need to just let go and accept that some members of society will attempt to punish you by rejecting you for it. Accept this notion and let go of it. For example, I love the idea of marriage in life but I can not accept being told what to learn or do in school. I feel the need to rebel because I feel like I want to learn what I want. This is a struggle we all feel in live every day and we need to accept rejection and let go so we can be our belief.

Lastly and most important, Learn to accept others completely for who they are and what they want. we are all an expression of energy we will all want different things and have judgements placed on us based on how we grew up and were raised. It will be ok for one to do something and another may feel it is wrong. I say just accept all things of others and find the people who accept the beliefs you have and let others be who they want.

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Power of Prayer, Trusting and Letting Go

 

 

I recently had a conversation with a dear friend of mine about what direction he is going in life. He seemed a bit lost at the time and I found myself feeling very concerned and confused for him. I knew that trusting in god and the direction is the way to go so I prayed for things to be resolved so he would be the amazing happy person I love so much again. Well, During This first conversation he was finding himself in the middle of other peoples controlling and egotistical problems which, in the case of all of our loved ones is not always something we can help. I knew he felt torn up and in the middle of it all. I could hear the frustration and anxiety in his voice at the time. He was also working hard, laboring hours with little reward or enjoyment at the time. I have always been deeply concerned for my friend and found his distress unnerving. I prayed for him to be the happiest he could be.

 

Then, Yesterday i received the best news I could. My friend called me and told me that he had stood up and quit working for the family that was dividing him and found a job leading worship and singing. He had even received a few gigs already. I could heard the joy in his voice and even as I write this I am almost in tears for how happy I am for him. Since the first moment I met my friend Brian I knew music was his passion and following it would bring him true joy. God answered his prayer and I am proud that he is brave enough and trusting enough to take the step blindly and follow the river before him down stream.

 

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