Are you Ignoring the Signs?

Each of us I led through life with guidance in a higher form… We receive Answers and directions each day and many of us ignore them or brush them off. Have you ever simply worried about something and not understood why. You thought it was irrational or ridiculous and then you find out that exactly what you were worrying about happens.

 

Well this happens to most people and in reality if we did not disregard these feelings but confront them or trust them we would avert a lot of troubles each and every day. For example, Have you ever been n a relationship that you just knew the person was up to something and you say to yourself no I am being crazy…. Then 6 months later you find out you were right and you are mad and upset with the fact that you wasted your time. Well what if these were your signs and guidance trying to direct you away from this person. We need to learn to let go of the things we worry about and do exactly what our feeling and gut tells us. ** this doesn’t mean start acting on every feeling and being overly emotional** but it does mean using discernment and moving away from the things that are not bringing us closer to happiness, compassion, and freedom. below are a few ways to start recognizing signs when they come so you can begin o work with the source rather than working against it…

 

1. keep a journal– this will allow you to look back at your feelings which is the most common way we receive signs. if something feels wrong or bad then there is something wrong. Do not try and rationalize it like there is something wrong with you. There is nothing wrong with you except your not on the right path and need to reflect on your choices.

 

2. Pray for Clear Signs and Guidance- asking for signs and guidance on what to do helps you to recognize what may already be there or it may give you a clear sign on what to do. My friend Julie for example prayed about someone in her life that she cared a lot about that was making unhealthy choices an she had provided hem with a lot of help and support but was continually getting hurt. she received a sign to move on and stop what she was doing. Not once but Twice!!!

 

3. Give up on Fear– stop fearing things you may lose like, friends, jobs, etc… sometimes sacrifices and letting go are necessary for the overall happiness and good. we may not see this at the time but it always the case. if we hold on to things we never have room to bring the new things in that will help us. Clear out the old and make room for the new….

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On the Defense and What to Do?

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 Lately I have been contemplating making some real big changes in my life due to the quality of others around me. like most people however; I m afraid of making such a large career change because of the uncertainty. I often need to reflect and remind myself that doing the same thing will only get me the same results. Well, what brought about this thinking is a man at my work who I cant seem to get along with. I have recognized that I am consistently on the defense of myself and my character lately. I had not always worked with Steve. Before he was in this position of running the show he never bothered with me and I was happy coming to work and writing and creating solutions the way I always have. Now that he is the overseeing people he has began to make me feel attacked and even though I do not believe this is his ultimate intention and is his attempt to do  good job at the new position he is in. I have to now run everything I do by him and he does not even tell me what to do with it. yesterday, he informed me even though it was my own work I don’t need to know, he doesn’t care how I feel and I should worry about how he feels. I m on the defense and feel like work is now war. Has anyone else ever felt this way at work with someone who seems to be on a power trip of some kind? Well, for those of you who have or are now I m going to share my plan with you because there is only one reason people began to act defensive and that is because there is something to defend!

 

First of all, I am completely removing myself from the situation. someone has to realize there is no reason to fight for something when it hurts you. I am going to leave the job where I make great money and officially persue my own ventures full time…

 

Next, I am going to remember my own advice and be brave. sometimes doors close to help lead you in a better direction. Sometimes people ask why did god let this happen to me and these are the situations that make us stronger and redirect our paths. Trust in hat life brings and believe this is hat is suppose to happen.

 

Lastly, I am going to empathize with Steve so I can thank him for providing me with the opportunity he is providing me and so I can see what Steve must feel inside to make him act so poorly towards me and others who work there. Always put yourself in the shoes of others so you can see what the motivation is behind the action. I am positive that his worries must be far worse than mine and I am the Brave person to realize my defensiveness and make some real changes.

 

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Things You can Learn about Buisness or your Career from a 4 year old

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Just the other night I was babysitting my little niece. Over the course of the evening she was talking about all of the things she wanted to do. She would tell me how she is going to be a princess and her and her “horse are going to live in a big castle. Now obviously most of us do not grow up to become royalty (unless were Kate Middleton) but over our childhoods we learn skills and are told each and every day to be realistic. Children Like my niece are fearless and free to dream at the age of 4. If we were encouraged to dream our entire lives imagine who we would become. I myself would not have gotten a practical degree in which i did not really want and waste many years of my life sitting behind a desk not enjoying one bit of my life.

 

First of all Begin to dream again each and every day. visualize and write down what your life would be like in your ideal world. Remember back when you were a kid and why if you were like me you wanted to be a Pirate or a Firefighter. Begin to dream of a whole new wold even if it is something that reality could never sustain. This will help to increase your capacity for thinking outside the box and give you that same enjoyment a child would have when they are playing make believe.

 

Next, start to compile a list of things you really like to do and do them more often. Life is about having fun and enjoying the people and culture we have all around us.  There is an old saying that if you love what you do for work then you never worked a day in your life. This is very true because you would have choose to do these things anyway. for example,the love of my life loves to hunt and fish ( what men don’t!) He is going to be using this love to create his own business so he can spend every day doing just that. Or how about my friend Christina who loves children she decided to become a social worker and create a place that’s helps children in need gain better resources. There are many ways we can be happier with what we do ; but, we need to know what we love first.

 

Last, I challenge all people to go out and learn what it means to be truly fearless and brave. worrying about what might happen leads us to that exact sequence of events and yet if we simply go for it we almost always arrive at our destination safely. If a better life is what you seek be like my niece was with her first horse back riding lesson. If a 4 year old girl can walk right up to an animal 20 times her size pet him and without even a flinch jump on his back because she wants to be a princess with a  horse I am sure you can start enjoying your life and taking the steps to making your self happy!

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Changes in Life Path anre you Man 1 or are you Man 2

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There are always times in life where we fear and worry about what will happen in our lives. Let’s face it Bad things happen! yet, it is truly how you look at the changes in life that make us who we are and decide what type of fate we will have.

 

For example, Lets look at two people equal in every way. Both of these people work the same job and both of these people gt let go on the same day. with no savings or way to get buy; Man one decides to stress and worry about it. He calls his mother and begs for help crying and receives it. He then takes his time trying to find a job and continues his self pity and neediness throughout this process. He feels like he had no responsibility in what happened and saw no opportunity. after a bit of time he lost the people closest to him because he was borrowing to much money and making people feel badly when they are around him.  On the other note there is Man two who decided that he was in need for a change in his life anyway. In fact he was praying to god for the ability to be more independent and did not want to rely on a boss any longer. This man felt like it was his answer. He didn’t know exactly what he would like to do but each day he worked as hard as he could. He researched his interests, found like minded people to help and prayed the whole way. This man opened his own business, made many new friends, and no longer has to rely on someone else opinion of himself and his work to take care of himself and his family. People now have great respect for him and his life is 100 fold better.

 

It should be obvious what the differences are with these two men! First of all the trust in god and where you are going is a huge part of growing in our lives. If you are not able to take a backseat and trust in what you are looking for and have prayed for then how will you ever gain happiness. If man two did not get let go then how would he have gained his financial freedom. Sometimes we all need a push! We also look at trust and can measure it by how positive and thankful we are for the opportunity placed before us. Man one was so negative that he continued to lose more as time went by. A positive and thankful attitude draws in what we need in life shows that we trust it will all work out. Now, I pose to you the question, Which Man are you and when you find yourself at a crossroads where life will change do you embrace it and walk down the path or do you try to fight it, and resent it. If you want to become a better, happier person this change from man one to man two is a huge step.

 

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Are We Tested?

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We are all familiar with what is the most well known story of God testing mankind. In this story God asks Abraham to make a sacrifice of his son in Gods name. Abraham at that point took his son to the the top of the mountain and prepared to sacrifice him. That is when God stopped him right before it happened. Although, today we don’t make sacrifices in Gods name are we tested like Abraham was. I Believe we are and I believe before God answers our prayers we need to prove our love for him the same way Abraham was.

When we pray for something using The Law of Attraction and/ or God / The source of everything we need to prove ourselves to god before our prayers our answered. This is done through trust and love that we will gain the answers from god and that we cant accomplish our goal or need without the source. For example, I personally was asked to walk away from someone before being brought to my soul mate. I had to sacrifice the entire life I was accustomed to and move in a foreign direction and trust in the destination. I personally have been tested each time my life was about to change for the better or a prayer would be directly answered.

When trying to change your life you need to understand that we need to trust in the destination and understand that their is sometimes a price that needs to be paid for the greater good. Fear of giving up what is asked of you and moving in a different direction holds you back. Next, time you feel stressed or something randomly pops in to you life pay attention to the solutions and choices placed ahead of you and find the divine guidance and move ahead with complete trust and joy!

 

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New Project… Book The Persuit of Christ Consciousness

I wanted to inform everyone of some of my new projects I currently have going on…

 

About 3 months ago I started writing about Christ Consciousness and how this is the true way to gain happiness in your life. I have finished the book itself and am editing it currently. I have decided that half of all the proceeds will be donated and the book will be at an affordable price. This is also why i will only be publishing as an e book. It is about helping others and sharing beliefs. I wanted to keep everyone updated. It will go on sale in august and will cover everything you spiritually need to attract what you want in life. If you have been studying the law of attraction and are not getting anywhere this is for you because it goes in detail simple steps you need to start to truly build your life. I will be including a copy of all blogs with the short e book and am extremely thrilled with the rough result so far. This is also why I will be taking a break from blogging so I can finish The e book up in the next couple of weeks. If you have been following me and would like a copy i will send the link out before it is finished where you can buy it  and I will let you know where the donations are going to… Please share my update… Love you all 

 

 

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Soul Mates and How to Recognize Yours

When we think of the concept of a soul mate it is mostly black or white to people. we all stand on one side or the other. I wish I could offer some most conclusive answers for everyone. I have had many people in my life that seemed as if they could have been my soul mate. I was attracted to them immediately, Love at first sight, almost as if I have known them my entire life and I have loved with all my heart and no conditions. Still nothing has lasted and I was always drawn to move on. This may seem like a negative and sad story but; Lately things have turned around so much in the love field for me and I completely understand why I went through all of the relationships up until now. I believe before we meet the right person our soul mates if we are not ready, have not gained the knowledge, compassion, and empathy we need to be whole with in ourselves we will never be able to have a fulfilling relationship with our soul mates and we lose them or hurt them.

The next question regarding Soul mates is how do you recognize your soul mate and this is difficult because we often feel something with people immediately like a pull and assume we are meant to be with that person. This is not always the case. In many cases this is just a sexual attraction we feel as a “kidney Pull” the area in the body where the sexual energy is often released. Then, our natural empathic abilities will feel another attraction and mistake this for recognition. Sexual energy is one of the strongest energies we can transmit and even people who have a low empathetic range can pick up on this receiving of energy. Sexual energy that is passed this way can be manipulative and controlling even if we are not aware that we are doing it. This is because we can often convince someone that they are right for us through this amazing rush of giving sexual energy. The way we do this is by consistently thinking of a person in a sexual way. This is a great sharing of energy if you already feel compassion and love but if not its simply unfair. As an empath I am aware of this feeling of a” kidney pull”and the difference between past life recognition with someone. I understand now that it is not the feeling that you need to recognize your soul mate but the recognition of values with in someone. If you do not share the same values and principals this person and yourself with have many troubles ahead. A soul mate will resonate on the same energy and want the same core things. Like my need for compassion, affection, and loyalty that I gain with Ryan. However these core needs will be different for all people its about finding the person who wants and gives you exactly what you need to be true to yourself and happy. Next, God will often drop you a hint if you pay attention to the energy around you.For example, love has always been extremely important to me. I love easily and frequently and i can remember dreaming of Ryan before he came in to my life.

Yet, i had never met him so I dismissed these few dreams each time until I finally had the moment where I realized I was living the dream. If you pay attention to the signs you will be driven in the direction of your soul mate at the right time and away from those who are wrong for you. Finally, your soul mate will mirror your energy. Now if you were born like me and you can see it then its a bit easier but for others it can be difficult. The soul mate will run on the same frequency as you and will have the same energy about them. please do not mistake this for being really similar. You can actually be opposite with all your likes and dislikes but not your overall personality. For example, Ryan is completely a mans man he likes to hunt, fish, and is always in his own head and I am relaxed easy going, trusting, and I love pink and singing, dancing and am artistic. We like different things but we are very similar in how we handle each other, the people around us and the way we love. I trust him because he is like me in many ways that just can not be seen.

 

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Appreciation of Coincidences

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Coincidence is defined as chance happening: something that happens by chance in a surprising or remarkable way. This is the definition we are all taught to accept in life. It is not uncommon to hear people use this term to push away the idea that they are being given some divine guidance in a specific direction, a sign, or perhaps a gift. In life nothing happens by chance! It is the coincidences in life that show us which path to go on, help our intuition and law of attraction make our lives better each and every day. It is all of our job to watch and listen for coincidences in our life. its the moment where you say this is strange? hmmmm… These are always guidance and help. Next time a coincidence arises in your life do not ignore it instead ask yourself what is the message? These coincidences may be matched by a person or experience that will help you understand the meaning. For example, I was thinking about writing a book and prayed on it. I was also considering other options in my life at the time and was not sure how i should express my ideas. Then, I went to church with my father that weekend and they spoke of god telling a prophet to write down everything that happens. Now, if you are anything like me this is most likely not enough of a sign. I often consider myself like Gideon after I am given a sign I always need one more sign. So, I began writing but I was not sure this would help me get where I wanted. So, I had a moment where I was literally told to Donate half. At the time I assumed it meant profits from my book. Now, I was driven towards a place where It is far more relevant and I am moving closer and closer to my goal and Path without any idea of how I was going to get there. Please share coincidences in your life with me and any interesting divine guidance you have?

 

 

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Letting go of Judgement

Judgement is something as people we can not seem to escape as people. All of our lives we have been taught to judge everyone and everything around us. Society has a guideline of beliefs we accept and hold each other accountable for. Then, we judge ourselves and others when they do not hold true to these guidelines. I personally know this struggle very well. It is my wish that I can completely let go of Judgement and yet, each and every day I fall back in to the belief system that was placed in front of me at birth and constantly programmed in to my mind by the community around me. So how do we begin to let go of judgement of ourselves and others? The only way is to reprogram our beliefs and become open to the oneness of god and study that Christ Consciousness’ principal.

First, The reason we are constantly accepting the judgements placed around us by society is because of the constant need for attention. For example, when we are children our parents begin early training us to believe we need to act and feel certain things. If we live the way they tell us and accept the social norms we are rewarded with attention and if we are not we are punished and rejected. We have this constant reward and punishment going on at all times. We even punish ourselves constantly by remembering the mistakes in life we make. Instead we need to decide to let go and forgive ourselves.

Next, The understanding that god is everything and everyone. We are one with everyone and everything around us. The understanding of this leads to the letting go of judgement and the compassion, understanding and openness to all ideas leads from this one concept. We are all just simply meant to give readily the love and energy we have instead of having false beliefs. Instead believe everything because all beliefs are true to that person.

Also, each and every day be I am and what we truly are. We need to take the risk and be who you are instead of what others expect of you. some of societies judgements you will want and love because they will make you happy and benefit who you will become in life. However; there will be others that will not and these are things you need to just let go and accept that some members of society will attempt to punish you by rejecting you for it. Accept this notion and let go of it. For example, I love the idea of marriage in life but I can not accept being told what to learn or do in school. I feel the need to rebel because I feel like I want to learn what I want. This is a struggle we all feel in live every day and we need to accept rejection and let go so we can be our belief.

Lastly and most important, Learn to accept others completely for who they are and what they want. we are all an expression of energy we will all want different things and have judgements placed on us based on how we grew up and were raised. It will be ok for one to do something and another may feel it is wrong. I say just accept all things of others and find the people who accept the beliefs you have and let others be who they want.

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Retrain your Brain My favorite subliminal Messages Free!

I have often spoken about the importance of self talk and subliminal messages. If you want to accomplish anything you first need to believe in what you are doing. If we do not believe in our ability to accomplish what we set out to do then it wont happen. The same is true if we do believe! Our world is a manifestation of what we believe. Therefore, making sure we are programing our minds for success is so important. I wanted to provide a link to the video I like a lot for subliminal messages that are free on you tube!