Indespensable Leadership Qualities

ImageWhen looking at great leaders and People who are able to guide others in a positive and fulfilling direction there are a few crucial qualities someone must develop with in themselves. These qualities are some of the qualities that people find motivating in a leader and will help you gain respect and love from your team!

 

1. Integrity and Honesty– I place this quality first on the list because a person without integrity will always have there decisions questioned by the people who value honesty and integrity in their own lives. If you are doing things that hurt others or make the world around people a worse place for your own gain then you can never be a true leader. For example, a drug dealer who commands respect through power, and control never leads. Have you ever wondered why violence runs so deep within these people. It is because they can not gain respect from the people around them without forcing it on them!

 

2. Commitment to your cause– No one who is successful at building a team of people or gaining the respect of their peers has ever quit on their cause or purpose. They are so deeply involved that when something does not work the way they wanted they simply adjust the course of their sale and keep sailing towards their goal. This commitment in itself is assuring to those who are following you and shows strength in your belief in yourself and ability to accomplish what is needed.

 

3. Openness- The quality of openness is understood as a personality trait we express. I recently watched on the Dr. Phil show a way to test just how open you are to new ideas and how accepting you are of others and what they think. Its really simple, How do you feel about PDA! As ridiculous as it seems open people are usually accepting of PDA and even seem to find it nice. This is because they do not feel like they need to control the actions of others. Good leaders are open people who will accept criticism and look in to the ideas of the people they lead. They collaborate more and control less!

 

4. Consistency- Good leaders realize that small actions add up to big things! They consistently act each day to hit the goals. This can be as simple as making a couple phone calls but they realize every action matters no matter how small! Also, they are consistent with the decisions they make and how they handle the people around them. It is much better to have a systematic approach!

 

5. They think Big and Go the Extra Mile–  Good leaders can see the whole picture and only focus on the end result. This motivates true leaders to go the extra mile and understand that no matter what happens they will get what needs to be done done. One of my favorite quotes is actually something Yoda says to Luke in Star Wars He says NO TRY NOT, DO OR DO NOT, THERE IS NO TRY! This is how a leader acts towards there goal because no matter what obstacle is set in front of their goal the goal itself is so big that they can always see it and keep moving towards it!

 

6. They Know the people they lead Personally and Professionally– They care about the people who are around them and although having a professional relationship is important they genuinely care about the well being of the people who they lead more than the job that needs to be done. This is why true leaders develop a personal relationship with the people they lead!

 

 

 

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The importance of Goal setting and writing Objectives

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Goal setting is something that is crucial in achieving anything you want in your life. The act of setting a goal when done properly does a couple crucial things that will lead you to organize your projects even if you do not know how to achieve a goal in the end. The reason goal setting is important is because it will allow you to come up with small objectives that when added up as a whole leads you to the final destination. Think of the goal as the Destination and the Objective as each step towards your journey.

 

How to set a Good Goal- 

 

First in order for a goal to be good it needs to have a time frame this will give you perspective and motivation on what you need to achieve and allows you to measure your goal. For example, I am finishing up my Ebook now i am writing now and my original goal was as stated.

 

I will finish my e book by the end of July this year.

 

The other important aspect of a goal is it should be broad and cover all aspects this is the big picture you want to achieve. This is the end result instead of the means to get there. I am sure you have all heard the saying you don’t need to see the whole staircase just take the first step. The goal is always your final destination.

 

How to create good objectives- 

 

The objectives are the small actions you need to take every day that will move you towards your goal. I personally live by “The Rule of 5” therefore i take 5 steps i think are important every day towards achieving my goal. Objectives are small actions that are measurable and should be done quickly and regularly. for example, one of my objectives today is

 

Tonight, I will research at least, 5 spiritually successful people and find at least 3 commonalities in their processes and how they live their life for my e book.

 

Goals and objectives are an important step to creation process and practiced amongst all successful individuals. I guarantee if you begin to write out what you are working towards and apply writing objectives daily towards your goal these small steps will add up to an amazing end result you will be proud of.

 

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What is Success

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I am constantly studying other peoples methods and theories of how people define and view success. There are some that will tell you loving what you do is success, and others who will tell you that helping someone is success to them, and there are always those who view having lots of material possessions and money brings them success. This topic has been a debate among many since the dawn of time and most people will accept the view that it can be different to all people; however, I refuse to accept this. I believe true success comes when you have these three working in synchronicity in your life. when we combine money, happiness, and compassion for others this brings us true joy in what we do. The hard part for most is taking the step to achieving your goal or dream. Most people will shut themselves down and never take the first step. I recently was reading about success and the mind set others adopted in their early stages to push them along and I wanted to share a couple with you.

 

1. Blind faith– All successful people took the first step blindly, not knowing how they would get there but simply making small actions towards the goal each and every day. This is something I do and everyone who is working to achieve a lofty feat will explain. I go by the “rule of 5”- each day I do 5 things to achieve my goal and simply do this each and every day. Living in the moment rather than focusing on the past or the future. ACT instead of think because our thoughts typically get in the way!

 

2. Don’t believe in failureLet go of our Perceived Risk– This is something I am going to coin myself. Many experts tell you not to fear failure (which the majority of us are afraid of) They say failure makes you stronger and better. I do not think there is a such thing. Every time we create something it is an amazing experience and continuing to move towards our goals may require many different shifts and changes. These shifts and changes are what brings in the people we need, the experiences we need, and is what makes life interesting and amazing. This is the flow of life. giving up on our idea of failure and perceived risk will make action more fun and easier.

 

 

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Consistancy they Key to your Desires

 

No matter which successful person you speak to they will bring up the fact that they had to work hard for their reward. There success was something they had to believe in with all there heart. No matter who you are there are going to be road blocks and people who will tell you your dreams are not realistic and if they were then everyone would be successful. Guess what , There Not! The one thing everyone successful has in common is the consistency of their actions. They do the same work day in and day out placing new ideas in to the pot and stirring until the stew is finished and delicious. Consistency comes from patience, belief, and forward movement each day. If you have a goal you are working towards I suggest you write out your goal and each day take at least one action each day to accomplish this goal. Do it no matter what and be consistent because all successful people work towards their goals each and every day and never stray from their path. 

 

 

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Law of Abundance 2 Ways to Honestly cash In

 

 

 

The law of abundance states simply that there is more than enough to go around for everyone. Many of us believe that there is a limited supply of everything in the world that we may want. For example we think are needs are like an endangered animal and whatever we want we better get now because it may become extinct. yet, the truth of the matter is we are always multiplying as people and creating more and more of everything this equates to abundance not lack! Now, there are more people to help, more people who buy, more people to love, more opportunities and more people to enjoy experiences with.

 

In fact did you know abundance was described as a great and plentiful amount and it is one of the irrefutable laws of the universe same as gravity. I doubt anyone in the world would argue with the law of gravity it exists and it works.  Yet, cashing in can be difficult and here are some ways you may be able to start using this law to make your life better each day… Here are the two things you need to change to change the way abundance treats you…

 

1. Stop wanting- Feel as if you know it is there and this is easier than you think. Instead of Begging and pleading for what you desperately need to make you happy act-as if until you get it and use letting go activities. I even recommend studying the Buddhist views of letting go until you finally feel free. When you first remember gaining something you thought was impossible i bet it was as soon as you were “over it” or didn’t feel like you wanted it anymore. The reason is longing brings about the feeling of not having something and that will keep your need or happiness just beyond reach.

 

2. enjoy what you have- being grateful is a rare trait amongst everyone. to honestly appreciate everything abundance has already brought you in life will bring you more and more. The universe brings us the same situations, people, and things over and over. The reason is so we can achieve more and create a better life. if you learn what has been attracted to yo u and how it is beneficial you will learn and have more abundance.

written by Nichole Grimshaw

 

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