Pay It Forward… Thank You!

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If you had read my post yesterday you know what I was coming in to today at work… I had been praying the majority of the ride in for courage and for all to work out! Sometimes we need to see the little signs around us and appreciate all there is. Well, I pulled in to Dunking donuts this morning because like so many New Englander’s I Run on Dunkin’ LOL! I ordered my Iced coffee through the drive through ” Hazelnut Iced Regular Please” and I often choose to not wait in the drive through but this morning I did for some reason. I was still doing my morning routine of praying in my head the whole time and as I got up to the window the cashier said “Your All Set” at first I looked Bewildered, thinking to myself what do you mean all set. The lovely young girl through the window said the lady in front of you wanted to pay for your coffee. I knew I had no idea who the woman was because I was not in my home town and I do not believe things happen on coincidence. Thank you for the sign and Thank you to the lady in front of me who just wanted to do something nice today! It meant way more than you even Know!

Written by Nichole Grimshaw

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Changes in Life Path anre you Man 1 or are you Man 2

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There are always times in life where we fear and worry about what will happen in our lives. Let’s face it Bad things happen! yet, it is truly how you look at the changes in life that make us who we are and decide what type of fate we will have.

 

For example, Lets look at two people equal in every way. Both of these people work the same job and both of these people gt let go on the same day. with no savings or way to get buy; Man one decides to stress and worry about it. He calls his mother and begs for help crying and receives it. He then takes his time trying to find a job and continues his self pity and neediness throughout this process. He feels like he had no responsibility in what happened and saw no opportunity. after a bit of time he lost the people closest to him because he was borrowing to much money and making people feel badly when they are around him.  On the other note there is Man two who decided that he was in need for a change in his life anyway. In fact he was praying to god for the ability to be more independent and did not want to rely on a boss any longer. This man felt like it was his answer. He didn’t know exactly what he would like to do but each day he worked as hard as he could. He researched his interests, found like minded people to help and prayed the whole way. This man opened his own business, made many new friends, and no longer has to rely on someone else opinion of himself and his work to take care of himself and his family. People now have great respect for him and his life is 100 fold better.

 

It should be obvious what the differences are with these two men! First of all the trust in god and where you are going is a huge part of growing in our lives. If you are not able to take a backseat and trust in what you are looking for and have prayed for then how will you ever gain happiness. If man two did not get let go then how would he have gained his financial freedom. Sometimes we all need a push! We also look at trust and can measure it by how positive and thankful we are for the opportunity placed before us. Man one was so negative that he continued to lose more as time went by. A positive and thankful attitude draws in what we need in life shows that we trust it will all work out. Now, I pose to you the question, Which Man are you and when you find yourself at a crossroads where life will change do you embrace it and walk down the path or do you try to fight it, and resent it. If you want to become a better, happier person this change from man one to man two is a huge step.

 

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Do you Believe in Coincidence?

 

 

 

 

 

It can be hard to let go of our past experiences especially when we do not seem to understand why something is or did happen to us. Something I have come to know throughout time is life has no coincidence. Sometimes things I do not want happen and yet it will lead to a bigger or better opportunity, strengthen or teach me something I needed. If you can learn to recognize signs that are happening in the present and gain the faith and trust you need to move forward yo will never look back or need understanding again. I want to share a story of so called coincidence and hope. 

 

About a year ago a friend of mine we will call her Sara. Sara had developed a great spiritual belief and has had so many troubles in her relationships. Men would just love her but never commit. after around a year they would break up and she would always be heartbroken. There was one man in 2008 that was the catalyst for her spirituality and faith but also, caused my friend unimaginable pain. She loved him More than anything I have witnessed in this world. Well a year ago Sara had the same situation happen once more with different love. However, at the same moment all of these things were occurring can you guess who she became friends with the 2008 guy… Coincidence or a source of help, remembrance, and understanding… Well, that is your call…. I want to tell you how this story ends and I can tell you it is extremely positive and she is happier than ever… Keep in mind even the people we bring in to our lives have purpose and with faith and understanding of why we lose people and things is always to gain more later on…


Personally, I do not believe in coincidence I think everything we pray and ask for sometimes needs a new perspective or outcome to come about and that means a huge change in our lives. this is especially true when others are involved. So have faith look at your coincidences because you need and attracted them. Trust and always look to the present and what you want in the future. Never think upon the past because the past is what you needed even if it doesn’t seem that way