People can often be categorized as right or left brain thinkers. typically one hemisphere will dominate the other a lot like twin babies in a mothers womb there is one dominant twin we all have one dominant hemisphere. It is important to consider which of your hemispheres is in control. this argument is a deep one and we see in many different conversations throughout our life. for example, woman in the past used to be considered right brained creative and emotional people. where as men who are often fighters, needing concrete proof of things and want to act quickly rather than thinking is often a left brained trait. in today’s world it is almost unheard of that someone is right brained and being a male right brained individual is even more unthinkable.
First of all, lets explore the left brain and the type of people who are predominately controlled by this hemisphere. the left brain as you can see above are number people who can find themselves always needing more proof of what is they have happening to them. these people are your typical non believers. They often will accept what the normal way of thinking is at the time and or go with the flow and not make change unless objective proof is presented that they can hit or reach a high self serving purpose. They are controlled by the self or the ego and very rarely want better things for anyone who is not close to them or will help them in some way. Now, Left brained people do have great ability to research and search for truth. they are rarely hurt and can walk away easily from situations they do not see beneficial or do not believe in. They also need control and can usually find it in themselves.
Next, we can look at the right brained creative and subjective type of thinking. today these people would be the emotional and loving people. These are people who are looked at as being ruled by their emotions. A good sign of being right brained is someone telling you that you are too emotional or use your heart and not your head. Having a strong sense of self belief and hurt for the world. Having the ability to create and develop ideas easily are all traits of the right brain. Yet these people tend to become depressed and hurt more easily than a left brained person. Moving on and letting go is typically the hardest struggle of the right brained people and a need to explain the hurt.
So which brain is a better dominating half. In my opinion and this is my blog so I am going to give it ! Is a right brained person tend to do the moral and right things far more often. they are less self serving and often give far more. they are the emotions of the world and although in our modern mess of the world we value logical thinkers we often discredit love and value for other people and our feelings. I believe if we put love and creativity back in to our world and take out the ego then we may actually have some hope of a future.
written by NIchole Grimshaw
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Thomas Jefferson said that all Americans have the right to the pursuit of happiness? Many people I speak to will explain to me that this is a great sign that happiness is false and happiness is an endless quest that no one ever finds. I am here to tell you that these people are false in some ways. I will agree that most people who seek happiness in life never find it and there are simple reasons for never reaching the level of peace all humans are meant to feel in their soul.
First of all, Most of us are conditioned as children to tow the line and through the media, others opinions, the people closest to us like our parents and teachers that happiness comes from money and money is hard to attain. I am here to tell people that money is infinite and easy to attain if you have the courage to go after it. None of us were meant to live a life of wanting and longing for the things we desire. Instead we are meant to create new things, ideas and circumstances that will allow us to express ourselves and money should be the afterthought. although, most of us are taught to be realistic, work hard, and put our own desires aside. I know every day i am typically even now told to grow up by the people who supposedly care the most. I am here telling you not to grow up instead grow wiser and create more.
Next, happiness comes from within us and no one will find it from any object or person. So many people are taught that stability with a job, a husband or wife, a big house or car will be what makes them happy. often this is never enough to truly fulfill a person. yet, getting to know yourself and loving who you are greatly will allow you to become a person who has love to give and can be what we often here as a whole person.
Lastly, happiness is true freedom and anyway your soul can achieve that it will strive for. Nobody can be happy without a sense of freedom in what they do and what they want to do. No one wants or likes to be told what to do and in time we all rebel from those who try to control us. This could be your boss, your parents, your partner, etc…
To conclude what the pursuit of happiness should be for everyone is the ability to create and have money to do what you wish with it, to be secure with who you are accepting and love yourself no matter what, and finally having freedom to so what you want at all times and be in control of your own world. Getting these three things is true happiness and each person needs to start recreating their world to gain each one of these three pursuits. That will make you happy.
“Do what you feel in your heart to be right, for you’ll be criticized anyway. You’ll be damned if you do and damned if you don’t.” Eleanor Roosevelt
She speaks of not letting others dictate who you are, what you can do and be, and understanding no matter what you will be criticized for it. Yet, not speaking up and doing what you feel in your heart is the right thing to do gets us all in trouble each and every day. We are lucky enough to be given the ability to create a reality and use this for good or bad… Next time you are faced with a choice instead of thinking just feel it. That gut feeling is your direction and sometimes that means doing what is best for others. I know doing the right thing is something we can be proud of and Living with yourself is something you have to do each and every day. Follow your Heart not your head!!! Eleanor Roosevelt knew it…I know it and people who are peaceful and happy know this… The heart is your soul and it knows what to do every time 🙂